Do You Look the Part?

Raija Lydecken
4 min readFeb 21, 2024

Everything is vibration

Everyone likes to be noticed

Here is a scenario. You are a professional, at what you do, and you know it. You have studied for years, done your due diligence and finally, after so many months and perhaps years of getting ready, you have started your own business or work. You know that you know. You know more than the others. But do they know that you know?

You know you will need an edge to stand out because there are others, who are also good at what they do. So, how to stand out?

Some people are so charismatic that they stand out no matter what they wear. For the rest of us, we need to put in a little extra work to find out what “wakes up” our own personality so that others notice us more than the next guy.

This is something, many of us have faced and those of us, who wondered, how on earth am I going to achieve my goals etc. and gave up because their efforts did not pay off. Perhaps you didn´t think of all the aspects of how to make the best of what you have? Actually, you have more assets silently working in your favor than you might think. You might not have tapped into everything you have.

You need to be you.

Let me ask you: When people see you, do they immediately want to get to know you better? Are they attracted to you? Do they get a feeling that you know, what you are talking about? Do they get a feeling that you have more information to give than the next person? Can they see that you are a professional in your own field?

What do people see, when they see you?

Be honest now.

To help you out, answer the following questions:

Do people comment positively on your appearance often?

Are they drawn to you?

When people see you, do they stop and look at you in awe?

Do people often comment about how well you look?

Do people ask if you are in love?

Do people ask you what has happened to you, since you are looking so good?

These are the kind of things people ask you, if you are making the best out of the silent messages that colors send out. Yes, colors send out messages, even though we don´t hear them with our ears.

Instead, we feel them by thinking “I like what I see” or not.

This is because colors are vibrations and frequencies, and whether we like it or not, they have an effect us, on many levels.

We often make decisions based on color. We are drawn towards some colors and like to keep our distance from others. This can be a matter of learning, whether we should like some colors, or it can be a built-in characteristic.

Just the other day, I read in a paper, that scientists are on the verge of finding out a cure for Alzheimer´s and it is somehow connected with frequencies. That hit a chord with me. Frequencies! Colors are frequencies.

If you want to find the secrets of the Universe,

think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration.”

Nikola Tesla

Of course, it makes sense because when we look around us in nature, everything is harmonious. Then when we look at cities, they are deprived of color. Could that have something to do with the fact, that so many people are not feeling well in our society? I don´t know.

What I do know, however, is that when you use and see colors in harmony, it makes you feel better. Much better. I don´t know why people are wanting to change the color scene of the whole world. In addition to seeing colors with our eyes, we obviously also sense the vibrations and frequencies without really understanding it.

It has only been a little over 30 years that we have known that colors also relate to us as human beings. According to our coloring, we really should be wearing colors that resonate with our own personal color vibes. Everyone can wear all colors and look beautiful and harmonious. The shade and intensity of colors reflect your own coloring.

It is no big secret to how colors work. Many books have been written about it. The “trick”, however, is to choose your own best colors to support you through choosing colors that resonate with your personal colors.

Unfortunately, it is not so easy to distinguish the difference in all the different colors by reading books only, because there are zillions of colors. No one can remember them, even for a short time.

You need to see and feel the different colors and compare them with one another. That is the only way to really understand how colors resonate with people according to their personal coloring. There is a wonderful system to wearing colors, and people would be happier if they applied that system to themselves.

The system is simple. The COLORAIJA Method.

All you need to do is find out, which one of the six dominant color characteristics applies to you and your colors. The dominants to look for are: SOFT, CLEAR, WARM, COOL, DEEP and LIGHT.

The Spring, Summer, Autumn, Winter way of thinking was only the beginning. Now we know more. This is all tied together and it is all very simple.

It can make a huge impact on your life!

Give yourself time to find out and learn. It took me years to understand and get my head around the complete picture.

I am not sure that everything we need to know is yet discovered.

Time will tell.

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